Inside a recent simpleweight conversation.
“When are you going to get serious about your weight loss?”, asked my wife
I was kind of surprised by the question. I mean, I measure my activity, my biometrics, and some of my food everyday. I talk about weight loss and overall fitness often. I think about it, read about it, and sometimes even pray or meditate about weight loss.
My response was, ” I am serious.”
My wife then asked, “Are you?”
I have let this stew for weeks. In fact, I don’t remember the date of the conversation. It could have been months ago, but it feels more recent than months. So, I put weeks. The fact that I don’t remember the date, but vividly remember the conversation details is telling. Turning that question over and over in my head.
Am I serious about my physical fitness?
I’ve watched a few other bloggers struggle recently with this same question. It often times is when we go dark. What I mean by dark is when we’re not posting details, when we’re not measuring, when we’re not checking in publicly. There is value in that. Still, it reminds me of a conversation that I read about Knowing vs Doing and personal finance. What I mean by that. There is a difference of reading and learning about fitness and weight loss and actually doing it. Knowing doesn’t make you lose weight. Knowing doesn’t get you physically fit. Knowing is just that. You know. Doing, now that is the difficult part. Anyone can know what to do. Doing takes disciplined action.
So, I thought to myself. So, my wife doesn’t think I’m serious. Well, Am I serious about physical fitness? I’ve been formulating this over and over again. My first thought then is.
What does it mean to be serious about physical fitness?
- Move Everyday! I’m not talking about getting up, walking the few steps to the shower, then the few steps to kitchen to eat breakfast, then the few steps to the car, and then the few steps to the office, etc. I’m talking about actual moving. Measurable Physical Activity. Do I make it a priority in my every day routine to be active? I have to say No.
- Eat less food by eating only enough food until I’m not hungry. I do not do this at all. This is probably the biggest challenge for me. I always eat until I am full. I love food too much. I think, oh I have to have more of this. its so good. So, No.
- Measure my progress to track trends. I weigh myself everyday. I weigh some of my food everyday. I don’t do enough physical activity to measure. Although, I measure items, recently, for the first time in a long time, I have not actually tracked the data except for the mental head check. So, No, I don’t track the trends.
- Control emotional eating by keeping a food journal. Nope, don’t do that.
- (optionally) Eat healthy food. Eat Mostly plants (fruits, vegetables). Stay away from sugary items, and get plenty of protein and fiber. For the most part i do this. I mean, I often eat Turkey based Chili, Tacos, Pasta Sauces. I often eat vegetables at every dinner and lunch. I often have fruits at lunch. I eat whole grain breads, whole wheat pastas, and brown rice. I try to eat poultry for protein with the occasional beef product thrown in there. We use mostly olive oil based items rather than butter. My snacks are rarely candy, although sometimes I splurge. The issue for me is two fold: I eat too much (see number 2) and sometimes I eat an over abundance proportionally of carbohydrates. So, I’ll say yes. I eat healthy food.
- (optionally) Get enough sleep. Studies dictate that sleep helps with everything. It helps keep the mind fresh which in turn helps keep you mentally sharp to deal with the day to day psychological struggles over eating. For the most part, I do sleep fine. Although there are times where work dictates fewer hours of sleep.
I have to say; it’s not looking good on my part. Am I serious about my physical fitness? The facts may dictate that I Know what to do, but my actions dictate that NO, I am not serious about my personal physical fitness. You might have different criteria for being serious, but whatever they are. I’d say if I look objectively at my situation, then No, I am not serious. My actions speak louder than my words right now.
My next thought to myself, that I’ve been struggling with is:
Why am I not serious about physical fitness?
I mean, I have a fitness website. I encourage everyone around me everyday to be active, to eat healthy, and to measure progress. Begin with the end in mind, as Stephen Covey wrote. Why? What’s off in my motivations? I finally came to the conclusion, that I don’t know. I know it seems like a cop out. It is. Yet. I have to be honest with myself first. If I am not ready for it, then move on. Am I ready to make the conscious effort that is necessary to change many years of bad fitness habits. why now? Why ever? Good question.
So. I know what I need to do. I need to move, I need to eat less, and I need to measure my progress. Will I do it? stay tuned.
Are you Serious about Weight loss? Ask yourself:
- Do I move everyday?
- Do I eat less food?
- Do I measure my progress?
- Do I control my emotional eating?
- Do I eat healthy food?
- Do I get enough sleep?
Let us know how we can help you get serious about your physical fitness.